Bila senang, ramai yang datang...

Tadi, masa Neeza bersibuk-sibuk di dapur dengan my cooking partner (dirahsiakan nama atas sebab kerajaan :P), keluarlah topic tentang ini. Semasa kita susah, tak ramai orang sudi berkawan atau bertandang. Tapi, bila kita senang, ramai yang datang. Bukan sedara pun mengaku sedara, contohnya lah...

Neeza pernah rasa benda ni tapi Neeza tak lah berniat nak cerita disini semua biji butir. Biarlah.. apa yang lepas tu biarlah lepas. Neeza percaya sesiapa yang terlibat tu telah sedar di atas segalanya. Kalau tak sedar pun takpelah. Allah tahu apa yang dia lakukan.

Kenapa benda macam ni boleh terjadi? Dalam agama ada mengajar, kita perlu tolong orang susah. Semua agama ajar macam tu. Takde agama yang suruh kita keji dan hina golongan susah dan memerlukan. Tapi, rata-rata manusia memandang hina orang yang susah. Kalau tak pandang hina pun, pandang serong. Dikala kita memerlukan pertolongan, orang melarikan diri. Macam-macam alasan diberikan. Padahal, pertolongan yang kita minta tu bukanlah besar sangat pun. Bila difikirkan, mungkin tak besar pada kita tapi besar pada orang yang nak kena tolong tu kan. Orang takut nak menolong sebab takut dia akan susah disebabkan kita. Sedih kan bila manusia bersikap macam tu.

Bila kita senang, ramai pula yang datang termasuklah orang yang dulunya melarikan diri daripada kita. Mereka tanpa segan silu datang minta tolong dan macam-macam lagi lah. Ada pula yang sampai mengenakan kita teruk-teruk. Astaghfirullah!! Macam tu sikap manusia. Tapi takpelah. Bersabar sahaja jalan terbaik. Kalau nak lawan pun, tak kemana. Banyak benda yang perlu ditempuhi. Last-last nanti, takde apa yang dapat pun. Ya, mungkin mereka menang disini tapi di akhirat esok, tiada siapa yang tahu penyudahnya...

Sekarang bagi Neeza, kita perlu ambik jalan mudah. Bersyukur dengan rezeki yang Allah kurniakan. Orang nak datang dekat, datang lah. Orang nak jauh pun, pergi lah. Tiada apa yang kekal kecuali Allah s.w.t. Lagipun rezeki tu bukan ditentukan manusia. Allah penentu segalanya...

A bite of itu dan ini :)

Kelmarin, Neeza tulis satu entry yang agak panjang. Dah habis tulis tu baru perasan, tak saving pun. Something was wrong somewhere. Tak tahu lah apa kena. Since Neeza was in rush, Neeza sempat copy saja. Tapi, tak paste anywhere. Bijak sungguh la. Baru tadi perasan yang entry tu tak publish pun. Well, it wasn't meant to be here. Takpelah tu. Takde apa yang penting sangat pun. Nampaknya blog ni pun dah merajuk dengan tuan dia. Dulu rajin sangat update. Now, not anymore.

Sumeyyah, my dearest youngest darling baru saja genap setahun on last 15 January. Umur 1 tahun memang umur yang comel bagi setiap individu. Betul lah comel sebab 20 tahun selepas itu, individu itu tidak lagi comel. Mereka mungkin akan jadi, cantik, handsome, kacak... mahupun comot! hehee.. Meyyah dah boleh berjalan tapi dia tak nak berjalan. Jalan 2 3 langkah, dia duduk. Mungkin sebab dia selalu sangat kena dokong. Takde urge untuk dia berjalan. Takpelah.. take your time baby :).

Semalam, Neeza pergi PTA meeting sekolah my girls. Ingatkan meeting tu dah biasa dibuat. Tak rupanya and the parents yang datang pun tak lah seramai yang Neeza jangka. Ada lah dalam 30 orang kot. Sesi semalam lebih kepada sesi 'parents meluahkan segala problem yang diorang nak sekolah settlekan' dan bukannya discussion on how parents can help. Rasanya lah, lepas all the parents balik, mesti cikgu-cikgu tu a bit frustrated sebab tak nampak pun ada volunteer nak buat apa-apa (including myself lah tu hehee). Mungkin juga, volunteer akan serah diri kemudian. Tak tahu lah tu kan.

On the way nak pergi PTA Meeting tu, bas singgah lah nak ambik orang di satu tempat yang Neeza sendiri tak sure kat mana. Nampaklah ada sorang pompuan ni angkat sorang budak pompuan. Dia pegang sebelah lengan budak tu dah angkat. Eeeeeewwwww... gerun betul Neeza tengok. Nasib baik tak tercabut lengan budak tu. Then dia letak satu buai kecil kat luar rumah dan letak girl tu kat situ. After a while, pintu tutup. Nampak budak tu sorang-sorang je kat luar. Neeza cakap dengan kawan Neeza, kalau lah orang nak kidnap budak tu, a split second je, memang menangis tak berlagu lah. Kalau iya dia nak jemur anak (or mungkin anak majikan tak tahu lah tu..), takkan lah kat luar dan duduk sorang-sorang budak tu. Entahlah, tak paham culture diorang ni kadang-kadang. Neeza ada snap gambar tapi dalam handphone pulak. Tak le kome gheti dan ghajin bebeno untuk transfer gambo tuuuu... huhuuu...

Next week kelas Neeza di dakwah centre will be as usual tapi the next 3 weeks tu, kami cuti. Bestnya... Neeza suka kelas tapi Neeza pun suka jugak ada break. Kalau nak ponteng sendiri, rasa tak best sebab sayang pulak lessons yang tertinggal. Kalau sekolah officially close, that's a bless for me :). Alhamdulillah... Cuaca di Jubail dah semakin panas. Of course tak lah macam summer. Nampaknya, winter is saying maassalamah ilalliqo'. Flowers are everywhere now. Marhaba spring!!

Below takde gambar flowers. Gambar-gambar 'my flowers' saja yang ada. The 2 youngest members in the family are in action :).

KRMJ Family Day 07012010

I've no other words to describe the event except, A GREAT ONE!!! Tahniah kepada AJK yang bersusah payah sepanjang minggu or 2 minggu, planning for the event. Keep up the good work!

Enjoy the pictures. Kalau rajin, I'll write something. Kalau takde tu, maknanya tak rajin la hehehe...

A week left

Two weeks have passed and another week to go. The kids will start their semester after that. It'll be quiet a bit in the morning and part of the afternoon. Shahmey and Sumeyyah will be with the bibik alone. Not too good actually. Though my 2 elder kids sometimes did bully their brother and sister, I'd find it is safer when they are around. At least they can tell me if the bibik does anything improper. Nauzubillah though...

Just now, the bibik went back to her owner's house. She had been asking about it since yesterday. A few different reasons were given. First, she said she wanted to ask for her salary. Then she said, she wanted the owner to send the money to her kids. I still remember a few days ago she told me that she doesn't want to send anymore money back home. When I reminded her about that, she said about something else. She wanted to see a doctor. When I told her Abang won't be so keen to send her to the owner's house, she said never mind. She wanted to phone the owner, then. Seriously, I don't know what is in her mind. Let her be. Since my class is cancel tomorrow, I told Abang, the owner can come and pick her up. Wow!!! In a few minutes, the owner came. It was fast. When we asked him to come and send the bibik's salary, he gave thousand kinds of reasons. Auta ****** betul laaa...

This morning, I had a small party in the class. Our Ustazah wanted to have the party since we have completed 2 chapters of the book. Hahaha!! baru habis 1 chapter nak party. Asyik makan besar aje, montel la myself ;). But, as soon as she came (she was quite late), she told us the 'news'. Today was her last day. She has started teaching a grade 1 students in Tahfiz Quran in Ferdos sector. I guess it is good for her. The teaching hours is fixed - 7.30am - 1.00pm every weekdays. She has a career now. Of course, it's not good for us as we already feel comfortable with her way of teaching. A new teacher will be a mystery. We don't know how she's gonna be. Hopefully she'll be better. Biiznillah...

Talk about the food. MasyaAllah... abundant!!! We have Malaysian, British, American, Nigerian, South African, Turkish and Indian in the class. So, one can imagine the kind of food that we have. Alhamdulillah... a huge rezeki for us today.

Tomorrow will be a no-school and no-maid day for me. I'm not sure what time the owner will send her over. I'll manage, InsyaAllah. It's my house after all ;).